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Coming Soo
I am expecting number two and Id like to celebrate this baby as well. I understand that second baby showers are tacky. I don't want gifts or or implication of gifts. I also think a gender reveal would be fun for us as well alittlsuspense. What do you think? And a meet and greet may not be somethingwe ca
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In this day and age, a second baby shower is perfectly acceptable - though some hardcore snobs will disagree, but a gender reveal is a much better option if it fits in better with /your/ social group, and your lifestyle.
I'd go for it, and if you genuinely do not want gifts, simply include on the invitation a subtle deterrent such as "Your presence is all that we need."
Best of Luck, and congrats on your second child :)
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In this day and age, a second baby shower is perfectly acceptable - though some hardcore snobs will disagree, but a gender reveal is a much better option if it fits in better with /your/ social group, and your lifestyle.
I'd go for it, and if you genuinely do not want gifts, simply include on the invitation a subtle deterrent such as "Your presence is all that we need."
Best of Luck, and congrats on your second child :)
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Why do men complain about paying child support but when they have?
Summer Sun
another mistress they don't complain.. its still money you have to use on another woman to bring her out to dinner and buy her gifts in order for her to give up her snatch.
i guess having putang is more important then their child.
no one wants to pay but they love to have kids.. nice!!
zip up the zipper you dart heads.
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They complain because their choices have been stripped away... Consider the following:
A woman lies and says she's on the pill, she gets pregnant. The father, who never wanted kids, is now on the hook for 21 years of support OR he can quietly go to jail and loose his job, car, and home. Many, many men are unwitted into fatherhood they never wanted by fraud.
A woman can pull a used condom out of the trash and impregnant herself with the sperm of a man she has NEVER even slept with. Fair to men? KEEP ALL your sperm to yourself JUST to be sure??
In some states the father de-facto - a woman's husband - is required to support a child for 21 years if they were married when the child was conceived/born, EVEN if it's proven in court that the child is not biologically his. 21 years of support for a child that's not yours, you never wanted, and was created via cheating?
A woman has a choice NOT to become pregnant - there's the pill, the female condom, IUDs, permanent and temporary sterlization. AND, once she becomes pregnant she can have an abortion. After the child is born, the woman can choose to NEVER reveal the father and put the child up for adoption herself - never having had the father's consent - he has ZERO say. Also a woman can abandon a child at a "safe baby" location and walk away - no questions asked, no papers to sign.
HOWEVER, a man has ZERO choice once the egg is fertilized. Women have choices up and down the line from prevention, to abortion, to adoption, to abandonment and are ALLOWED by law to have the final say at every single turn - even if her final say is that the man has to pay her for 21 years.
This is the farthest thing from gender equality that I can think of. Any woman who enters the child support system is saying "I have chose to bring a child into the world that I cannot possibly care for myself. Instead of making better decisions, I'm going to drag the attorney general, the welfare office, the guy's nuts, and the kitchen sink into this matter and have THEM solve my problem."
This is not true independence and womanhood.
They complain because their choices have been stripped away... Consider the following:
A woman lies and says she's on the pill, she gets pregnant. The father, who never wanted kids, is now on the hook for 21 years of support OR he can quietly go to jail and loose his job, car, and home. Many, many men are unwitted into fatherhood they never wanted by fraud.
A woman can pull a used condom out of the trash and impregnant herself with the sperm of a man she has NEVER even slept with. Fair to men? KEEP ALL your sperm to yourself JUST to be sure??
In some states the father de-facto - a woman's husband - is required to support a child for 21 years if they were married when the child was conceived/born, EVEN if it's proven in court that the child is not biologically his. 21 years of support for a child that's not yours, you never wanted, and was created via cheating?
A woman has a choice NOT to become pregnant - there's the pill, the female condom, IUDs, permanent and temporary sterlization. AND, once she becomes pregnant she can have an abortion. After the child is born, the woman can choose to NEVER reveal the father and put the child up for adoption herself - never having had the father's consent - he has ZERO say. Also a woman can abandon a child at a "safe baby" location and walk away - no questions asked, no papers to sign.
HOWEVER, a man has ZERO choice once the egg is fertilized. Women have choices up and down the line from prevention, to abortion, to adoption, to abandonment and are ALLOWED by law to have the final say at every single turn - even if her final say is that the man has to pay her for 21 years.
This is the farthest thing from gender equality that I can think of. Any woman who enters the child support system is saying "I have chose to bring a child into the world that I cannot possibly care for myself. Instead of making better decisions, I'm going to drag the attorney general, the welfare office, the guy's nuts, and the kitchen sink into this matter and have THEM solve my problem."
This is not true independence and womanhood.
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