Sunday, January 5, 2014

What can I do for my aunt who just lost her baby?

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mersy


Just yesterday my baby cousin who was barely going to be 2 months lost his life. Since they live in Mexico I can't see them right now. I'll be going on a trip over there in 2 weeks and I want to bring my aunt something special to make her feel better but I don't know what. Any helpful suggestions?


Answer
Buy her a little gift. Have it engraved "Sorry for your loss".

My cousin recently had a miscarriage. What are some ideas for a memorial gift/decoration or feel better gift?




PlasticTre


She was less than 2 months pregnant. She's having the remains cremated and it's undecided w/what will happen to the remains. She also had a feeling that it was a boy, so she named it after her grandfather.

What is something thoughtful or useful that I can do for her and the baby?
The hospital that she went to cremated the sac w/the fetus in it. It was probably 2-3 inches long.



Answer
when we lost our baby due to abortion from being rapedd even tho i had made the choice it was extremly hard i still felt as if i hadnt said goodby my way of working through the rape and loss of what could of been was to create a memory box

the memory box had
an angel with no face to represent my baby
a lil blanket
an outfit i hand made
a framed photo from the ultrasound
many many letters to her (i to felt it was a girl)
when it all got to much i would write my partner wrote aswell it was our way of copping with it all


looking back im not sure how i got through it without our box i didnt want support as i needed time to heal myself i found it very hard to be touched by others and i screamed when peopl.e told me they understood so be carfull in what you say but just let her know your there for when she is ready




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