laaquisha
So my husband of three months just told me that his babies momma asked him what he wanted for his bday from the kids...my initial response was to get annoyed because I feel like that is my task and I am doing that. Do I have a reason to be annoyed or do I need to just let it go. It will be annoying if she buys a nicer gift becuase she has more resources since we have full custody and she lives off welfare or whatever money she gets from the govt as an unemployed pregnant woman. She pays for nothing and doesn't even give child support...we don't need it from her but it bothers me. She doesn't understand boundries and seems to think he is the only person that she can ask to help her with things.
Am I suppose to just ignore everything that she does to get on my nerves or is it valid that I think her contact with him is inappropriate. I feel like she only needs to contact him if it has something to do with the kids...or am I just crazy?
Does anyone know of any online chat rooms or communities for people to discuss these things?
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You are not crazy but a bit insecure yes. You have to understand that he married you not her and is with you not her for a reason. He has innocent children with this woman, and your husband will appreciate you being the bigger woman and chillin out when she calls and has her dealings with him. As long as she is respecting the marriage to you and is not calling asking to get back together, or for booty...You gotta let it go. When you decided to get with a man with a baby mama then this is what you get. Play the cards your dealt in the most positive way you can. Do not create problems for your marriage. Now if the trick starts to act up, then you get bout it with her. For now be the wonderful wife your husband chose.
You are not crazy but a bit insecure yes. You have to understand that he married you not her and is with you not her for a reason. He has innocent children with this woman, and your husband will appreciate you being the bigger woman and chillin out when she calls and has her dealings with him. As long as she is respecting the marriage to you and is not calling asking to get back together, or for booty...You gotta let it go. When you decided to get with a man with a baby mama then this is what you get. Play the cards your dealt in the most positive way you can. Do not create problems for your marriage. Now if the trick starts to act up, then you get bout it with her. For now be the wonderful wife your husband chose.
Gifts ideas for my husband and son (for when the baby is born)?
Lucky
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When my first son was born I gave my husband a "daddy and son" figurine.
What should I give him for the birth of our second son? What should I give my older child (18 months old)?
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Matching father and son t-shirts with a matching romper for the baby would be cute. Personalized picture frame, either of the whole family, or the new baby? Try: http://www.mensbestgifts.com/new-dad-gifts/ - they have some good ideas.
Is there a small toy your older son would like? We always gave toys from the new baby to the older siblings - at 18 months he probably won't care too much about clothes!
Matching father and son t-shirts with a matching romper for the baby would be cute. Personalized picture frame, either of the whole family, or the new baby? Try: http://www.mensbestgifts.com/new-dad-gifts/ - they have some good ideas.
Is there a small toy your older son would like? We always gave toys from the new baby to the older siblings - at 18 months he probably won't care too much about clothes!
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