gift for 5 year baby girl image
Em
Say there's a 17 year old girl and a 63 year old guy. They go to the same tennis club and have known each other for about 5 years. They're friends and they sometimes see each other at the same local tennis tournaments. The older guy is married and has grown-up children. If the teenage girl and the older guy flirt harmlessly with each other, would that be considered wrong? It's not anything serious - just being playful and caring; it's consensual and both enjoy it and don't take it seriously.
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i don't think it is desperate or gross. it is not a sin to be charming and like able. by flirting i'm sure you don't mean the skanky flirting desperate 21 year olds do at the club but simple nice back and forth compliments and teases. It probably makes him feel better about himself and you get to have a laugh. older men especially ones that take care of themselves are quite charming and so harmless. so go ahead flirt if you could even call it that i'm sure you have no intention of becoming his underage sugar baby and he probably wont leave his wife for a minor, hey if you play your cards right a great friendship and an awesome graduation gift might come out of it.
i don't think it is desperate or gross. it is not a sin to be charming and like able. by flirting i'm sure you don't mean the skanky flirting desperate 21 year olds do at the club but simple nice back and forth compliments and teases. It probably makes him feel better about himself and you get to have a laugh. older men especially ones that take care of themselves are quite charming and so harmless. so go ahead flirt if you could even call it that i'm sure you have no intention of becoming his underage sugar baby and he probably wont leave his wife for a minor, hey if you play your cards right a great friendship and an awesome graduation gift might come out of it.
How to explain how the baby got in my belly to my 5 year old?
Jello x
So telling my little girl mummy's having another baby was great. She was happy as ever. But 2 mins later came the ''how did the baby get in your belly mumma?''
How do you explain that to a 5 year old! I told her if she was a good girl and went to her nanas I'd tell her tomorrow.
Help? lol
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I believe in telling the truth, just not in detail. My son said something similar at 7. He said hey remember when you swallowed Reed and he grew in your tummy? This was at lunch at a restaurant with my mother. I began thinking, she jumped in and said babies are a gift from god. I knew instantly that this would be a problem. Then she gives me a smug look, till my son follows with why doesn't god love everybody? My mother immediately says god loves everybody. Her smugness fell a second later when my 7 yr old son says, well if god loves everybody why doesn't he love aunt Jan because she can't have kids and wants them? That is why I think its best to leave god out of it. I told my son remember when I went to the baby doctor? He said yeah, and he gave you seeds to make my brother grow. I said no, he gave me medicine so my eggs would grow. That all girls have eggs in them. He said like eggs we eat? I said, no like the eggs in finding nemo, except they stay inside while the baby grows. He hasn't asked yet what made the baby grow so we didn't talk about fertilization or anything. Suggest giving minimum but truthful detail, when she is ready for more she will ask more indepth questions. You can tell her that all girls have eggs waiting to mature. And that she was born with all the eggs she will ever have. The baby grows from an egg when the timing is just so.
I also don't like the mommy daddy scenario, not all kids have a daddy. My son also has friends with 2 moms and adopted friends.
I believe in telling the truth, just not in detail. My son said something similar at 7. He said hey remember when you swallowed Reed and he grew in your tummy? This was at lunch at a restaurant with my mother. I began thinking, she jumped in and said babies are a gift from god. I knew instantly that this would be a problem. Then she gives me a smug look, till my son follows with why doesn't god love everybody? My mother immediately says god loves everybody. Her smugness fell a second later when my 7 yr old son says, well if god loves everybody why doesn't he love aunt Jan because she can't have kids and wants them? That is why I think its best to leave god out of it. I told my son remember when I went to the baby doctor? He said yeah, and he gave you seeds to make my brother grow. I said no, he gave me medicine so my eggs would grow. That all girls have eggs in them. He said like eggs we eat? I said, no like the eggs in finding nemo, except they stay inside while the baby grows. He hasn't asked yet what made the baby grow so we didn't talk about fertilization or anything. Suggest giving minimum but truthful detail, when she is ready for more she will ask more indepth questions. You can tell her that all girls have eggs waiting to mature. And that she was born with all the eggs she will ever have. The baby grows from an egg when the timing is just so.
I also don't like the mommy daddy scenario, not all kids have a daddy. My son also has friends with 2 moms and adopted friends.
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