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Kayla
I'm 18 and six and a half months pregnant. my baby's father wants nothing to do with the child, and is in talks of getting married with his girlfriend (who doesn't know about the child) I was pregnant before, and had a miscarriage so i have some idea how hard it is to lose a child (and its the hardest thing) but he is pushing highly for the adoption, along with my parents. My parents think i should because I'm not a mentally stable person (I have sever depression and am suicidal, also most people think I'm bi-polar but i haven't seen a therapist since I got pregnant with my first child) I don't really want to give my child up because I'm already in love but i have no support, and no way of raising this child (i keep waiting for the fairy tale ending where the dad decides he'll help but instead i get he's getting married, and child support from him isn't really an option) So i was wondering if theres anything online to read, or where should i turn so i can start the adoption process.
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Well, I gave a baby up for adoption when I was a teenager. If this is what you decide to do, it is going to be a lot harder than having a miscarriage. Not that I'm trying to talk you out of it. I don't regret what I did and if it's a decision that you want to make, you shouldn't regret it either. The first thing you need to do is truly make this decision. Make sure it's the right thing for YOU to do. Not your parents, and not your baby's father. I think it's very responsible of you to be considering your mental stability, but you need to seek help, especially if you decide to give this baby up for adoption. I would suggest you inform your obgyn of your decision. He may have a patient or patients that cannot have children and are in the adoption process. You need to contact an adoption lawyer. Don't worry about the cost, this is the responsibility of the adoptive parents. But don't take advantage of people who want to adopt your child. Meet with prospective parents. Your attorney will help you through that. Talk to your obgyn about a support group to help you through this. You are going to need supportive people in your life right now. You don't sound too sure if this is the decision you want to make; please, make sure before things become final. There may come a day in this baby's life when he will want to know who his biological mother is and you are going to want to be around for that day. Talk to your parents about your feelings and do what you feel is right for you and your child. Adoption is a beautiful thing. And it can be the best thing for you too. Keep in mind that there are a lot of wonderful people out there in this world who cannot have children and want them more than anything else in the world. You could possibly be the angel who gives them the greatest gift they will ever receive.
Well, I gave a baby up for adoption when I was a teenager. If this is what you decide to do, it is going to be a lot harder than having a miscarriage. Not that I'm trying to talk you out of it. I don't regret what I did and if it's a decision that you want to make, you shouldn't regret it either. The first thing you need to do is truly make this decision. Make sure it's the right thing for YOU to do. Not your parents, and not your baby's father. I think it's very responsible of you to be considering your mental stability, but you need to seek help, especially if you decide to give this baby up for adoption. I would suggest you inform your obgyn of your decision. He may have a patient or patients that cannot have children and are in the adoption process. You need to contact an adoption lawyer. Don't worry about the cost, this is the responsibility of the adoptive parents. But don't take advantage of people who want to adopt your child. Meet with prospective parents. Your attorney will help you through that. Talk to your obgyn about a support group to help you through this. You are going to need supportive people in your life right now. You don't sound too sure if this is the decision you want to make; please, make sure before things become final. There may come a day in this baby's life when he will want to know who his biological mother is and you are going to want to be around for that day. Talk to your parents about your feelings and do what you feel is right for you and your child. Adoption is a beautiful thing. And it can be the best thing for you too. Keep in mind that there are a lot of wonderful people out there in this world who cannot have children and want them more than anything else in the world. You could possibly be the angel who gives them the greatest gift they will ever receive.
How much would you pay for a newborn baby in a priivate adoption?
rose
looking to adopt privatly and i dont know how much to pay the mother
omg were gonna get a private attorney. we have a mother that is willing to give us her baby cuz she cant take care of it. were gonna pay her for giving it 2 us and also the medical bills for her apps. im not just paying some1 and taking the baby im doing it right
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It is illegal to pay a woman for a baby, you pay your lawyer you pay for any medical expenses, BUT you never pay the biological mother a dime. Slavery went out a long time ago in this country Maybe you ought to seek a private adoption lawyer to find out what your responsibilities are, you will have to pass a home study which will be handled by a care worker for the State her report will be very important to determine whether you qualify to be an adoptive parent. IF she (the biological Mother) excepts your offer even as a gift she will have gotten MONEY for her HUMAN baby and I am SORRY but the Baby is not an object and Morally incorrect for her to take a PROFIT/ GAIN for her baby If she would like to legally give her baby up for private adoption. Then that should be a decision she makes that is BEST for the baby and NOT as a WIN FALL for her. RETHINK YOUR WORDING and what you are saying when you want to offer her money for a baby, it's NOT legal, and both of you could end up in jail for baby racketeering. BOTTOM LINE you are not allowed to buy & sell people.
and if it was allowed Trust me, Walmart would be right on it !!!
It is illegal to pay a woman for a baby, you pay your lawyer you pay for any medical expenses, BUT you never pay the biological mother a dime. Slavery went out a long time ago in this country Maybe you ought to seek a private adoption lawyer to find out what your responsibilities are, you will have to pass a home study which will be handled by a care worker for the State her report will be very important to determine whether you qualify to be an adoptive parent. IF she (the biological Mother) excepts your offer even as a gift she will have gotten MONEY for her HUMAN baby and I am SORRY but the Baby is not an object and Morally incorrect for her to take a PROFIT/ GAIN for her baby If she would like to legally give her baby up for private adoption. Then that should be a decision she makes that is BEST for the baby and NOT as a WIN FALL for her. RETHINK YOUR WORDING and what you are saying when you want to offer her money for a baby, it's NOT legal, and both of you could end up in jail for baby racketeering. BOTTOM LINE you are not allowed to buy & sell people.
and if it was allowed Trust me, Walmart would be right on it !!!
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