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My boyfriend and I just recently lost our son. I was 21 weeks pregnant when he passed away inside me. My boyfriend means a lot to me, and he's been there for me every second I needed him. So for Christmas I wanted to get him something special. From both me & our son. Just to tell him we love him and appreicate him. Any ideas?
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Sorry for your loss. You look young, like you shouldn't be having children yet, nevertheless, I understand the feeling of loss. I can't understand it the way you do because I never suffered that sort of loss (fortunately). However, I did go on to father five daughters, my baby is now 24. I also have one grand daughter (UGH! another girl). Oh well.
As for giving him something nice for the holiday, give him something meaningful, not sex. Help him to see how you feel about him, and maybe in the near future you may get engaged. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something that will demonstrate your love for him (again, not sex). Yeah, I keep saying that. Why? Because already you have learned what sex is and what pregnancy is. However, as yet you haven't learned what being a parent is all about. It's a tough job AND you need a partner to help you. So being sexually active, you need to be cautious and protect yourself from making an early mistake. In time you will be ready to be a parent, and so will the father of your child (hopefully). Till then, watch to see what interests him. If it's music, maybe give him a musical instrument. If it's cars, buy something for his car that he doesn't have but something that turns his head.
If he wants sex for the holiday, find a new boyfriend. He's more into his own selfishness rather than being into you and loving you. I know, I was that sort of boy many many years ago.
Good luck.
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Sorry for your loss. You look young, like you shouldn't be having children yet, nevertheless, I understand the feeling of loss. I can't understand it the way you do because I never suffered that sort of loss (fortunately). However, I did go on to father five daughters, my baby is now 24. I also have one grand daughter (UGH! another girl). Oh well.
As for giving him something nice for the holiday, give him something meaningful, not sex. Help him to see how you feel about him, and maybe in the near future you may get engaged. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something that will demonstrate your love for him (again, not sex). Yeah, I keep saying that. Why? Because already you have learned what sex is and what pregnancy is. However, as yet you haven't learned what being a parent is all about. It's a tough job AND you need a partner to help you. So being sexually active, you need to be cautious and protect yourself from making an early mistake. In time you will be ready to be a parent, and so will the father of your child (hopefully). Till then, watch to see what interests him. If it's music, maybe give him a musical instrument. If it's cars, buy something for his car that he doesn't have but something that turns his head.
If he wants sex for the holiday, find a new boyfriend. He's more into his own selfishness rather than being into you and loving you. I know, I was that sort of boy many many years ago.
Good luck.
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Need help with baby shower gift?
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My niece just had a baby shower last Saturday and I couldn't attend because I live 11 hours away. Anyway I am getting ready to go home here soon and I want to get her something. I asked my sister (her mother) what she needed that she didn't get and it sounds like she got everything she needs. So I am at a loss on what to get her. She's not due until June 22 and I won't be able to be there when she gives birth either. I don't want to get her something she already has that she will end up returning but yet I don't know what to get her. By the way she is having a girl. Any advise would be helpful. Thanks.
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Onesies are great, and you use lots of them with a newborn. Another idea is to get her a gift card to a store like Target, Walmart, or Babies' r' us; so she can get what she needs. Another idea is diapers, wet wipes, or formula if she isn't going to breastfeed. Also you could get her something she can use to pamper herself, sometimes people tend to forget that new moms need pampering too!! Hope this helps.
Onesies are great, and you use lots of them with a newborn. Another idea is to get her a gift card to a store like Target, Walmart, or Babies' r' us; so she can get what she needs. Another idea is diapers, wet wipes, or formula if she isn't going to breastfeed. Also you could get her something she can use to pamper herself, sometimes people tend to forget that new moms need pampering too!! Hope this helps.
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